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Sociologist Willard Waller in 1937 published "The Campus Rating Complex," which described Penn State students using the "dating and rating" system (their version of "Hot or Not") as proof of a person's popularity.

In the 1940s, it was common for men and women to date someone different every weekend (see above) which required men to ask women out weeks in advance. This practice is a great way to use anticipation to your advantage.

What happened to the good old days when chivalry wasn't dead, people went steady, and dates lasted longer than a cup of coffee?

"I don't know if I am ever going to get married at this rate," my friend Marc wrote to me in a recent text. It's a familiar sentiment: two girlfriends shared similar concerns three days prior at brunch, when one described a scenario in which she was "ghosted" by the guy she'd been dating for five months.

Suits and ties might be a little stiff for modern dating, but putting effort into appearances sends a message that you actually, you know, give a damn.

A 1930s dating manual warned against women being too "familiar" with their dates in public, as "open shows of affection can be embarrassing or humiliating to him." This is a decent rule for all genders to follow, most especially on the first few dates.

Consent 101 stresses the importance of respecting another person's boundaries.

There is truly nothing more uncomfortable than a relative stranger rubbing your leg an hour after meeting you, or having someone you just met cram his or her tongue down your throat.

It's easy to understand the different ways a telephone can make or break a budding relationship.

A couple of calls a week -- no need for hours-long evening chats -- will allow you to get a better sense of who a person is.

Before texting and the Internet, the only way someone could contact a love interest was in person, in a letter, or with a live call.

While few of us use our phones for voice-to-voice conversations, there is real value in dialing digits -- especially when one considers how many relationships hit unnecessarily choppy waters due to a lack of tone or misunderstood emoji.

Sixty years ago, it was commonplace for for men to pick women up at their doors, bring flowers or other tokens of endearment, and arrive dressed in a suit with a collared shirt and tie, shined shoes, and perfectly styled hair.

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