Shy men not dating

But in the end, it will probably be totally worth it.

That said, here are 10 tips on how to date a shy guy. The first thing you need to know before you do anything is that you can't take his shyness personally.

Source: Shutter Stock Once you've made your feelings clear, it's time to take things to the next level (as long as he seems receptive).

You can do that through flirting, although aggressive flirting may not work with a shy dude. You might have to carry the conversation sometimes.

Try giving him simple compliments, like, "I love that color shirt on you! Source: Shutter Stock Another way to get him to feel comfortable around you is to ask for his help with something you know he's good at. Acting like you don't know how to do something to make a guy like you is lame, plain and simple.

A common misconception in the dating world is that the guy always has to approach the girl to make the first move.

Because of this, shy guys who can’t work up the nerve to talk to a girl they like get screwed.

Source: Shutter Stock When it comes to kissing, you may have to (once again) take control of the situation.

Go on a first date and see how it goes - if it was awesome, but he never made a move, see what happens next.Before you do that, try to find out some stuff about him. Source: Shutter Stock Talking on social media or through text messages is a great way to get to know a shy guy.I know that, as a shy girl, I'm much more likely to open up and speak my mind when I'm not face-to-face with someone.He might feel more comfortable talking to you through a computer screen and if so, this will allow you to get to know him and become friendly with him.Message him on Facebook or text him if you have his phone number.You don't have to be like, "I LOVE YOU..." you can just say, "I really like talking/being with you." Say it however feels best for you.

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