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Or to be so up front.“I may be a lesbian because of what happened to me, I don’t know.

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I was repeatedly singled out for sexual attention of sexually directed harassment before I was even a teenager.

It’s very particular sensation, but hard to describe —for me, it’s almost like nausea mixed with sadness and shock.

One of my male friends was standing outside a club when he was hit from behind.

He fell down, and two guys came up and kicked the shit out of him before running away. We used to do jiu jitsu together, but he had a particular drive that I think was borne of that experience. Yet, when men get beat up, I don’t ever entertain the impression that some part of them may have been destroyed.

Dan Savage told her she’d been the victim of sexual assault or attempted sexual assault.

And, when I read that, I was like “how can she have been sexually assaulted?

(I actually think there may be an opposite problem, namely men not getting emotional support because we don’t take their trauma seriously.

I’ll have to write about that later.) If a man’s behavior changes after an attack, we don’t use this as evidence to support an unconscious belief that he is broken. And, at least for me personally, this belief in the uniquely destructive power of sexual trauma prevented me from honestly confronting some of my more difficult sexual experiences.

If you told someone that a man had learned jiu jitsu after being attacked, I think the vibe would be “well, that’s pretty reasonable.” If a bisexual woman decided to date only women after being raped, the vibe would be “oh, she’s broken.”This belief in the “brokenness” of those have experienced sexual trauma is highly damaging. A few years ago, I was out getting drunk with a bunch of male friends, and one of them offered to let me crash at his place.

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