Adultfree trial phone sex call - Being aloof dating
Neil Strauss actually did some kind of test and videotaped it between a James Bond vs. But being aloof will mean you are relatively unexcitable.If you are unexcitable, it could be said that you are boring. Aloof, in the pick up sense, means that a woman can't provoke an emotional reaction out of you.If the aloof card isn't working, speak louder and amp up your asshole game.
If you are unexcitable, it could be said that you are boring. They sit at the bar (or party, or whatever) and try to act "aloof" or something similar, and end up going home with Rosie Palm. I saw a guy doing this at the bar last night as a matter of fact. I think that is one of the reasons that clubs are by far the hardest place to meet women.
I suppose it is possible to be highly interesting while still being aloof, but I'm interested in hearing some opinions on where the line is, and how not to cross it. It's like they think it's some sort of "anti-game." They think to themselves, "All these guys are out here gaming on women openly. He sat there all frigging night, sipping on his Budweiser and acting aloof and disninterested. Her name was Lisa, or Leeshy, or CC or something like that. But how do you think James Bond would do at a club or a house party?
I suppose it is possible to be highly interesting while still being aloof, but I'm interested in hearing some opinions on where the line is, and how not to cross it. The stereotypical PUA, enters a set high energy and gregarious.
He then handles obstacles that try to undermine him by 1) not going tit for tat, 2) not insulting her back, 3) but by getting her/them to buy into his view of the situation. pua - "hey guys, quick question, my friends are waiting..." warpig - "OMG Becky, he's watching that show on VH-1, are you some kind of loser?
I'll try to do the opposite and act disinterested and aloof, and then the girls will see how cool I am because I'm not like these other pigs." This thinking is fundamentally flawed because we KNOW that the techniques of the community build and create attraction. However, it was obvious that he wanted to pick up because I kept catching him looking around at the bevy of women that needed to get banged. I was approaching, getting approached myself, and generally having a blast. I busted on one cougar who tried the classic female qualifying shyt-test when she told me that she was too old for me. His low-energy demeanor is perfect at the usual places he hangs out, but not at the club. I've tried it and it can come across very weird to act like that.
Not once did he crack a smile or bust on any of the women. I told her, "Yes, you ARE too old for me." I was having a blast and my game reflected that fact. They wanted to have the same fun that I was having. Thats from ''actual in the field james bond impersonation''- try it. IMHO Its far harder to be radiate approachable and genuinely funny / witty / and turned on/ responsive. I think the word aloof is one of the best words to summarize the ideal attitude towards women.
All you girls are saying no, but whenever I ask for advice on here, I always get stuff like "be more mysterious", "don't be clingy", "don't give her attention too easily".
Are you sure you're confusing aloofness not working with you not LIKING it?
There are plenty of guys who get numbers often but rarely or never get sex.
Aloof isn't boring because: you maintain strong, almost overbearing eye contact. your reactions are very subtle, perhaps just an arch of the eyebrow, but communicate much detail.
Though I do think it is interesting how many people caution againist burn out in the begining.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating